Being a friend, and more

Most often our volunteers are called Big Brothers or Big Sisters, and the children they are matched with are called Little Brothers or Little Sisters. A High School Big is simply a student in high school - a "school-based" mentor - who volunteers as a Big Brother or Big Sister to a younger child. As a High School Big, you are matched with a child from your own community. You become that child's special friend and role model, offering attention, support, and encouragement.

High school students have a lot to offer as volunteers: energy, enthusiasm, caring, creativity, and something more - younger students look up to and admire high school students, and relate easily to Bigs who are also still in school. Especially important: their self-esteem is boosted by having a friend among "the big kids."

The most important thing a Big can do for a Little is to be a friend - to listen, give advice if asked, and to have fun. And there are lots of activities that friends can do together:

• Do homework in the library
• Play a game in the gym
• Read a book together Work on a puzzle
• Draw pictures or create crafts Enjoy a hobby
• Talk about yourselves and your families
• Play board games

It takes less time than you think. An average match might get together once a week for an hour, or every other week for two hours. The expected duration of the match is often one school year.

Why volunteer to be a High School Big? Because it's fun and rewarding, and because our volunteers truly make a difference in the lives of children! Littles often improve in self-confidence, academics, and social skills after being matched with a High School Big. In addition, volunteering can help you fulfill community service credits. You can include your volunteer work on your resume, and on college and job applications. Plus, being a High School Big will help build your leadership skills and confidence.